Best Friends RULE!!

I have know Katt (Check out her blog The World's a Circus )for a very very long time.

I love her, she knows how to make me laugh when I need it the most.

Despite me,
1) Deleting my first .blogspot blog
2) Deleting my Twitter page
3) rotating passwords on all my accounts
4) reporting it to the police, and have them repeatedly warn him.
My ex still find ways to harrass me.  Two days ago I got a notice on my yahoo account saying that I could click on this link and reset my Gmail account. HUH? I just wrote it off until I got a notice saying my account was locked for repeted attempts to access it, I've had my accont hacked before by spammer so I've got a hard to duplicate lEtR4ub3r password (and no that's not it) that rotates on a regular basis to prevent that. Plus hard to guess secrete questions.
Right, I just wrote it off as spammers, Now i'm pretty sure it's my Ex's fumbled atempts to hack my account.
Now I have one blog that i've literally had since I was 15. It's 99% locked (aka only viewable by people I choose) it's basically an archive for my life that I can't put here. Today I started getting trolled.
Just after we broke up I had this troll on my blog leaving me harrasing comments etc. I ran the IP and low and behold it linked ot my Ex's parents place... RIGHT! anyway my blog friends basically stood up for me and chased him away.
Now he's back. the blog has this comment notification thing where if you leave a comment the person who owns the blog gets an e-mail (lile blogger) but if you delete said comment there is no record of a deleted comment (unlike blogger). anyway This same account that my ex used, is now back and he;s been leaving comments and then deleting them right away.

I'm getting so frustrated with it. It will be almost a year since I have spoken to him and he will NOT leave me alone! oi!

Anyway I was talking to Katt and she just went off the deepend this was the conversation on MSN:

Katt says:
I has to go get ready, going to redneck town for a few days. chat later ok?
oh oh before i go
Chloe says:
ok have fun lol!
Katt says:
you crashed the hot air balloon in my dream, you meanie.
Chloe says:
Ummmm sorry?
I didn;t mean to?
Katt says:
lol, you said you didn't like the colours and that you were going to fly it away. Then you crashed it and walked over to me and said, it's gone now
Chloe says:
well I suppose it is
now
Katt says:
yup.sigh. it had a chicken design on it, so cool.


I love my best friend!! LOL!

xx
C. RN

Alive

I know i've been awful at updating this. After my last blogging site got ruined. My heart left blogging as a whole.

Quick update.
1. Writing new novel, about a telepathic cop and her partner in TO. 36k and counting.
2. Will most likly lose my job in the next 2-3 weeks
3. Thinking of moving to Aussie
4. Got dumped by boy #1, in the process of dumping boy #2 that is far too much like my ex.
5. Joined Match.com... wish me luck

yup that's my life, out to dinner then starbucks!!

xx
C.

New Bra!

I went Bra shopping yesterday! A combination of finding a place that actually has my bra size, being in the area AND! having a new man I want to have pretty things for!

Warning the men who follow me may want to just roll their eyes and skip this!

Good things about this new store:
They specialize in bras. All bras and undies.
They carry my size
I went down a band size. I am now a 36! no more 38!
I went UP! a cup size! (whoops!). I'm now a HH! oi!
I bra cost about $100.
It fits like a dream

Bad things:
The store is on the other side of the city, has wonky hours and has crap parking.
I want to go back and buy more!
No matching undies! (I've always wanted a pair of matching Bra/Undies as I've never owned a set. Curses of having extra large boobies).

I snapped a photo of me in the bra at the store (what it's Very pretty!)

I showed my mom the photo and the conversation went something like this:
Me: See isn't it pretty?
Mom: Why did you take a photo?
Me: So I can show my friends
Mom: Oh god don't tell me you put it on facebook!
Me: Of course not! *pause* It's on my twitter account.
Mom: *headdesk*

Anyway I'll stop back next Friday when I get paid and am in the area for a second good bra! Lets hope it has a matching undies.

xx
C.
And only if you as very nicely I might give you the link to the photo....

Really Mom?

I was in the kitchen when I heard a loud "THWACK"

I go running into the laundry room and my mom is standing there dazed with blood pouring from her head. She looks at me and goes "Am I bleeding?"

"YES!" Grab some 4x4 and a bandaid and she won't let me see her.

She is all "I want to see." and wanders away while I'm, trying to bandage her!!!

Anyway I pin her down in the bathroom starting at her bleeding head and bandage her gash and make her put pressure on it.

Anyway we ate dinner and now she's acting all weird. Pretty sure she's given herself a mild concussion. She has a lag in her pupils. *sigh* only my mommy can knock herself stupid while recycling!

C.

Thank you!!

I just wanted to thank everyone for their support this past week. It's been tough. Today is the first day I feel 100% since I got sick on Friday. Brilliant. As well as I've been dealing with my ex. He's been stalking me online which led to me changing my blog. Now I had to delete my twitter page and get a new one, along with rotating my passwords for the 100th time since he was trying to access that. I had some notices about attempts to access my bank account etc.  *sigh*. I just want him to leave me alone. I haven't willingly spoken to him in almost a year. (since I moved to Communityville).


Very long story short.
We bought a piece of furniture together when we move in together in December of 2008. He moved out. I kept the furniture and continued to make payments as I was receiving the bill. I informed him when I moved that he needed to change the bill delivery address as well as forward me the bill etc etc. He never did it. I stopped paying on said bill when he tried to steal $ from my account in Julyish. I haven't seen the bill since Feb of last year. I have no idea how much is owed etc. etc.  He got a final collection notice on the bill (it's only in his name) this month. He had probably gotten more but he never bothered to change the address the bill went to so he never received anything at all.  Anyway he started harassing me constantly. Calling my parents # emailing me. He would send an e-mail tome and CC my Dad and his brother for "protection" then send me another more threatening e-mail with out the CC. Half the time he sounded drunk in this e-mails as they didn't make any sense. (This is how I found out he was stalking my twitter page. He sent me an e-mail and I posted on my twitter page. "The Ex strikes again and he sounds drunk" and almost immediately I get an email saying "Please contact me in regads to the bed. I know you have recieved these messages. I am not drunk nor strinking again." Rigghtttttttt. He never sent me a copy of the bill and only sent me a guess as to how much was owed. I was informed I *had* to send him four posted dated checks of a certain amount. Etc. ha! I don't think so. If I had to bloody bill I would have paid it off MONTHS ago. I can't pay it off if I don't have the bill. *IF* he ever sends me the bill. I'll pay the company not him.


Anyway I ended up reporting his harassment on top of my abuse file already filed with the police department here in Communityville. The Detective is very nice. She wants me to file a report with the townville police where I used to live, and one with the Largecity PD where Katt Rett works (as something that I can prove happened there) but honestly I just want him to leave me alone I don't want to go through the court etc. If he'll get the hell out of my life I'll be happy. The detective ended up calling him and telling him he was no longer allowed to contact me. If he sent me the bill I would pay it. If not see me in civil court. 


I haven't heard from him since so lets hope the next and last thing i'll hear from him is the Bill then he can go to hell *HUMPH*


I got shit hours this week as I was basicaly off for 3 days  (sick for 5). Working today and tomorrow, and my hours boarder on insane. Plus I might pick up a saturday shift which will at least save me $$ wise. One bad thing about my job? No such thing as sick time.


With that i'm off to store need to pick up a few things for dinner!


xx
C.

*sigh*

The ex strikes again. Can't write anything else, just so frustrated right now.

C.

Court *phew*

I'm still sicker than crap (go me!!) I was suppose to go to court today and I totally forgot.

FML.

Oh don't worry I'm not in trouble, nothing of the sort. It's for a client. I have a client that is a Police officer. Totally sweetheart, great wife, cutest kids ever. (I keep threaten to steal them! He keeps threatening to give them away. His wife keeps intervening, darn!) He's got cancer. Poor guy, he's in the middle of a second  chemo/radiation set. He's pretty sick. At the moment he's admitted to the hospital so anytime he needs to leave a nurse goes with him(sometimes when he's home we take him as well) and I was suppose to take him to court today.

Usually anytime we take a client out of the hospital they go via medical transport or if they're stable enough paratransport. Alas these are sometimes very unreliable and since he needs to get there on time and to a specific area that's restricted I take him in my car. Now it's a bit tricky. Company policy states no way no how are we allowed to transport clients in our own cars. Bosses know exactly what is going on and have worked out a deal with the peoples who pay us that it's ok and I get paid extra etc etc etc. it boils down to: I'm allowed to take him in my car. But if anyone higher up asks we took medical transport. Got it?

I woke up this morning to a phone call from my client. It's very very rare I give out my cell # to my clients. My cell # is my personal cell I use for business. He's one of two I think at the moment that has my # specifically for this reason.

He called at eight to tell me that they move the court time from ten to one.

Thank fuck because I totally forgot. 

I woke up enough to get on the horn and started making phone calls, boss, other RN etc etc etc. Trying to find someone to take him. Overall it's an easy job. Park in the loading zone zip inside, go up stairs grab him bring him down stairs with his meds and load him into the car. He usually gets motion sick so they give him something for that before we leave but if not I give it to him before we get going.

He usually puts the hood up on his jacket and covers his face while I drive. He claims it's because my driving is so terrifying. I think it's the motion sickness but I'll give him the bad driving excuse. We get to the court house there is the back area where all the police park where we pull up to. Since it's been going on a while now they all know my car and they all know the situation I get a special pass and we park next to the doors and go in. Usually walking isn't a problem. Sometimes it is.

Depending on the judge we can either sit in the little anti room thingy attached to the court room (see I sooo pay attention on these trips) and the bailiff will come get him when it's time or we can sit in an interview room a little ways away. (It might also depend on the court room?). We basically hang out in there and it stops him from being around the germy public. He's stubborn he won't take any meds other than the anti-nausea (and only for the car ride) for the morning before the court appearance.  So usually they come in get him. He goes in does his thing I wait in the room they bring him back to me. As soon as we're sure he's done for the day I pump him full of meds he's been missing then we venture back to the hospital(since home is on the way to the hospital, if he's feeling ok we make a pit stop to see the kids, just depends). Like I said It's rather easy and usually open ended as to how long it can take.

I couldn't find anyone to take him. Not a one. I was so frustrated. It was to the point that overall head boss lady (who is sweet but hasn't been in the field in 15+ years) was going to take him. Which would be tricky since I don't think she has practice accessing his ports to give meds. Anywho. He called me at eleven to tell me that they cancelled his appearance for today as other witnesses were taking longer than expected and were rescheduling for Thursday. *phew*.  I didn't tell him I was sick because a) he would worry too much and b) he would worry too much.

Anyway saved for another day. I'm going to go back to bed and get some more rest!

xx
C